Last time I spoke about joining an online dating site. After much sifting I messaged a few more people. Although I felt a bit hurt when I saw that they have read my message yet hadn't replied, I soon realized that I do the same. I think its easier not to reply as a gentler method of saying no than to strike up a conversation and then have to crush someone.
So I have been conversing with a few, okay... 3, guys? men? fishes? lol
This past Saturday I forged ahead and met one. Neutral location, BN starbucks cafe, and we headed off to have pizza for lunch. When I think back about how the day progressed, I can already see the tenseness that was present. I do not know if it was on my end, his end or our end but conversation did not flow. There was a tense cloud over us for the duration of our meeting. I would not call it fun but I was not too keen on staying much longer after the meal either.
Till the next fish comes swimming!